Comments on: In Awe of Some Big Star? Guess What…You Are a Superstar Too! http://www.coaching4lesbians.com/blog/2006/11/17/in-awe-of-some-big-star-guess-whatyou-are-a-superstar-too/ Life and Business Coaching for lesbian business owners and professionals. Tue, 18 Nov 2008 09:41:19 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5.1 By: Lyle Lachmuth - The Unsticking Coach http://www.coaching4lesbians.com/blog/2006/11/17/in-awe-of-some-big-star-guess-whatyou-are-a-superstar-too/#comment-13331 Lyle Lachmuth - The Unsticking Coach Mon, 20 Nov 2006 12:42:58 +0000 http://www.coaching4lesbians.com/blog/2006/11/17/in-awe-of-some-big-star-guess-whatyou-are-a-superstar-too/#comment-13331 I did the exercise years ago in an introduction to Gestalt session. My hero then was JFK! What a powerful exerices. Helped me being to get in touch with my own charisma. .. and sexual power. LL I did the exercise years ago in an introduction to Gestalt session.

My hero then was JFK!

What a powerful exerices. Helped me being to get in touch with my own charisma. .. and sexual power.

LL

]]> By: barb elgin http://www.coaching4lesbians.com/blog/2006/11/17/in-awe-of-some-big-star-guess-whatyou-are-a-superstar-too/#comment-13194 barb elgin Sat, 18 Nov 2006 21:25:31 +0000 http://www.coaching4lesbians.com/blog/2006/11/17/in-awe-of-some-big-star-guess-whatyou-are-a-superstar-too/#comment-13194 wow - great point Paula! in this age when everyone wants to be famous, we often forget how 'famous' we already are in our own worlds. also - i think one of the difficulties today is being lured into thinking we must be 'famous' to 'be somebody'. we only see the positive side of being famous too. being a celebrity comes with it's share of negatives, of course. yes, if we interviewed ellen and melissa we might find there was a strong desire to excel in their fields. And perhaps a strong desire to become rich and famous. and therein holds another key: we think we know who ellen and melissa are - and, certainly we see enough of them to have a good idea. but, still, they are just people too and we need to watch out putting them on a pedestal they will undoubtedly fall from. I also think it's just exciting for lesbians to see other out lesbians in the public eye. i think this phenomenon is still fresh and makes some of us google-eyed... :-) wow - great point Paula! in this age when everyone wants to be famous, we often forget how ‘famous’ we already are in our own worlds. also - i think one of the difficulties today is being lured into thinking we must be ‘famous’ to ‘be somebody’. we only see the positive side of being famous too. being a celebrity comes with it’s share of negatives, of course.

yes, if we interviewed ellen and melissa we might find there was a strong desire to excel in their fields. And perhaps a strong desire to become rich and famous. and therein holds another key: we think we know who ellen and melissa are - and, certainly we see enough of them to have a good idea. but, still, they are just people too and we need to watch out putting them on a pedestal they will undoubtedly fall from.

I also think it’s just exciting for lesbians to see other out lesbians in the public eye. i think this phenomenon is still fresh and makes some of us google-eyed… :-)

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